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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 04:09

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Ask yourself:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

That's it for today.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What I need from you?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.